No matter where mom calls home, the most meaningful gift you can give her is simply you — your voice, your laughter, your hand in hers. For those residing in a long-term care community, this is especially true.
If you’d like to pair that presence with something tangible, the Therapeutic Recreation team at Gurwin Jewish Nursing & Rehabilitation Center in Commack has put together a thoughtful list of gift ideas that will add a little comfort, joy and beauty to her everyday life this Mother’s Day:
- A cozy shawl is a practical and personal gift. Temperatures fluctuate, and something easy to throw over the shoulders — or that might double as a lap blanket — gets used every day. Choose a fabric and style that suits her personality, and she’ll reach for it constantly.
- A digital photo frame loaded with family photos is always a favorite. Grandchildren, holidays, past festivities — seeing those faces light up the screen brings genuine joy, especially on days when visits aren’t possible.
- A handmade scrapbook – if you’re crafty — is a wonderful, heartfelt gift that starts conversations and keeps giving. Flipping through the pages and reminiscing is a great opportunity for your loved one to relive those memories and share them with others when you’re not there.
- A personal care basket filled with hand lotions, shampoos and conditioners is both thoughtful and useful. These are items people often don’t splurge on for themselves or have difficulty securing when they can’t shop for themselves. Add a few small indulgences — a favorite candy, a hand mirror, brush or a soft pair of socks — and you’ve created something genuinely special.
- A Kindle, pre-loaded with books and reading materials she loves, is ideal for an avid reader. The beauty of it is that you can keep adding new content for birthdays, holidays, and just-because moments throughout the year.
- A creative arts basket, stocked with adult coloring books, watercolors, or pre-outlined canvases can encourage relaxation and creativity. Even if she’s never considered herself “artistic,” these activities are calming and engaging — and something you can enjoy together during visits.
- A simple bouquet of flowers in a vase is always a fan favorite. The key detail: bring it already in the vase. It removes any hassle and means she can enjoy it the moment you walk through the door.